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  Link:  Plus Size Bowknot Asymmetric Cami Top This is a great top to wear in spring or autumn. I love that the straps are not adjustable so it will never slide down the shoulders. It has a cute bowknot in the front centre. It gathers around the bust but flows down nicely. to show of the curves and hide the winter weight gain :)  It feels very comfortable. It looks great when paired with jeans. I could even wear it by itself but didn't want to take the risk as it is flowy and loose at the bottom. I am wearing a 1X here but could have even gone a size less.   

Link:   Mermaid Leggings Break the rules | Change the game | Raise the standard These leggings are great for the gym, club, beach, walks, errands, shopping or lounging around in the house. The mermaid fish scale print and shiny texture is very subtle and eye catching at the same time. The fabric is very breathable. Click on the link above under the photo to see it. I have exciting news and new affirmations; break all the rules, change the game, re-define definitions and raise the standard! More designs coming up soon. Plus size girls can wear crop tops, tight fits, bright and bold patterns, short shorts, short skirts and much more. Plus size girls can be sexy, athletic, angelic, elegant, ambitious and achieve whatever we we want.  There is no such thing as "I can't pull this off", "this won't suit me" etc. Same with your career and other goals babes! 

Link : Plus Size High Waisted Flame Leggings There is a flame within us all. There is a fire that lights us up. It makes us excited, passionate, compassionate, determined... Sometimes, our flame can be dimmed by the darkness of certain situations and circumstances. However, it can be ignited again. In life, we can lose money, time, muscle mass, followers, jobs, relationships etc but we can never lose our passion, determination and inner qualities that ignites us to achieve and love.  These pants can be worn for the gym, hiking, walks, dance classes etc. They are very comfortable, flattering and slimming. It is now 44% off and free shipping. The link is above.

Link to dress:   Plus Size Open Shoulder Lotus Flower Print Dress This is a great Spring or Autumn Dress. It can also be worn on warmer winter days. I love the off shoulder design with the cute cami straps. The cami straps are convenient because they do not need to be continually adjusted. This prevents them from sliding off the shoulders. The cami straps also have lotus flower print.  Years ago, I never wore floral dresses but after finding Rosegal, I am in love with these dresses as they are very trendy, chic, cute and sophisticated. Even better, they come in plus size and curvy girl sizes. They are affordable. They make you feel empowered, energized, cute and sexy. This dress is now 42% off and free shipping. The link is below the photo. 

Link:  Criss Cross Trench Coat Dress This dress is great for work or church. It looks like a trench coat. The cold shoulder and criss cross design is very chic and trendy. It's like conservativeness and trendy has combined together. The belt which can be tied into a ribbon also gives it the extra feminine touch. It is now 50% off and free shipping. 

Link:  Black & White Plus Size Dress with Pink Cat Embroidery This dress is the cat's meow. It looks like a white jumper and black skirt. The pink cats playing with a wool ball embroidery is cute and adorable. I look forward to wearing this in winter to work, coffee and breakfast dates, church etc. Click on the link above to see the dress. It is now 30% off and free shipping.   

Click here to see this dress in other colours and all sizes . Free shipping!  This new year, I decided to be bold and take chances. A  couple of years ago, I would have never worn floral dresses or bright colours. I used to always wear dark colours (and only one colour) such as black, grey, violet or navy blue.  I am so thankful to Lorenzo and Rosegal for sending me this dress. It is actually very pretty and flattering.  This week, I started a program about self love and true love with a group of very beautiful and incredible people. At first, I thought this new self love concept was a new "be selfish"  movement. However, it is so awakening and it's only being a few days. I realised I have actually being my own worst enemy all this time. If I had self love, I would have never thought "I don't have the figure for this, some girls can wear anything, I am so stupid" etc amongst another things. These are thoughts of self-hate and lack of self-...

I am very excited about these musical note leggings. They are sassy, cool, funky and most importantly, comfortable. We can rock this at the gym, park, hikes etc. I love the subtle black horizontal musical notes and the bold electric vertical line of music notes on both sides.   Years ago when I was a gym junkie, the only option of active wear for bigger girls was the baggy pants and baggy t-shirts. I am so grateful to work for a designer who enables girls to feel sexy and empowered at any size with any budget. Thick girls want to be trendy too.  Click this link to see these music notes legging/pants . Free shipping!

Link:  Zebra Office Dress FoxinFlat's Darecember challenge has really motivated me to step out of my comfort zone. I usually do not wear vivacious stripes. This is a great corporate/office T-shirt dress. I like it for summer as the material is light and breathable. It has a great length and comes with a trendy matching belt which I can tie into a ribbon. The pockets are very large and come handy. 

Link:  Plus Size Light Pink Overlay Dress Style is something anyone can create. You don't need to be rich or in a certain shape. Like anything in life, it's all about comfort, experimentation, expression, taking risks and owning it. I love this light pink colour, chiffon overlay and self-tie sleeves. It's very soft on the skin and very comfortable on hot summer days. 

Link:  Red & Black Floral Belt Dress . 42% Off! Free Shipping! The weather has been very hot lately. I love summer but I do need my flowy, comfortable thin material dresses. This A-Line red and black floral dress is very cooling and sophisticated.  The belt is compliments it very nicely. 

Link:   Plus Size One Shoulder Flounce Dress .  70% Off! Also available in black and red . I love the sequin strap and asymmetric flounce design. It is very flattering. I am wearing a size 2XL. Another creative design where style and comfort have merged. Thanks Lorenzo & Rosegal

Link:  Off Shoulder gold zip asymmetric black top Simple yet sophisticated Gold zips  Grey neckline border  Asymmetric V-hem  I am a summer girl but one of the main reasons why I like winter is to wear off-shoulder jumpers. I am wearing a size XL. I feel like the sun is kissing my shoulders. I love this gray, gold and black contrast. Rosegal  has free shipping and has many trendy and affordable plus size tops!

It was my birthday last week and my dear friend and amazing blogger ( awayfromtheblue ) went out to the city and we had a great night. She also inspired me become a blogger. More pics to come later. Thank you for visiting my blog. Firstly, beauty does not have to be painful. It is not defined by someone else. You all have your own, original and unique style. Beauty does not have to be expensive or uncomfortable. As cliche as it sounds, beauty does come from within. How are you meant to feel beautiful if you are not comfortable and having a sense of internal satisfaction? I experienced many body image issues growing up, trying to confirm to other peoples' so called standards and definitions which extremely reduced my self esteem and worth. It was only few years ago when I discovered that things like success and beauty does not require anyone's approval. It is something that is defined by you. Discard all pre-defined conventions and pre-conceived notions! I always w...